Different Mothers by Louise Rafkin

Different Mothers

Sons and Daughters of Lesbians Talk About Their Lives

Louise Rafkin

Ranging in age from six to 40, 38 sons and daughters of lesbians offer brief essays that could be valuable to like offspring, as well as to relatives and friends trying to understand the problems such children face. Homophobia, visited upon the children as well as their mothers, is the most commonly cited concern; some younger contributors feel isolated from their peers, and a couple of boys endure rejection from radical lesbian acquaintances. Despite such difficulties, many contributors enjoy close relationships with their mothers and are happy in their unconventional homes. For older children, their own sexual orientation is an issue, and there is occasional resentment engendered by a parent’s coming out–“Growing up is a hard enough thing to do,” says one young woman. Unfortunately, the perspectives presented are slanted to the positive side both because the sample represents only those willing to speak publicly and perhaps as a result of self-censorship by children who know their mothers will read their revelations. Rafkin edited Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians. ~ Publishers Weekly

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ISBN 9780939416417
Genre Anthology – Nonfiction; LGBT Studies/Social Sciences
Copyright Date 1987
Publication Date Nov-90
Publisher Cleis Press
Editor Louise Rafkin
Format Trade Paperback
No. of Pages 160
Notes Copyright 1987, 1996, 2001

Lambda Literary Award Finalist, 1990

Language English
Rating Good
Editor Louise Rafkin
Paper Type Electronic Format Available
Subject Case Studies; Children Of Gay Parents; Family & Relationships / Parenting / General; General; Lesbian Mothers; Lesbian Studies; Parenting; Psychology; Sex & Sexuality; Social Science; Sociology; United States
BookID 3085

Author: LFWBooks