Ferocious Romance
What My Encounters With The Right Taught Me About Sex, God and Fury
Donna Minkowitz
With hilarious, sympathetic writing, Minkowitz explores the things she and the Christian right have in common — from their intense sense of ‘victimhood’ to their desire to be loved at all costs. If the Christian right wants a God willing to die for them, Minkowitz wants a lover willing to suffer pain. ‘Because I have fallen in love with a masochist,’ she writes, ‘I think I have entered the Garden of Eden.’ On this rollicking trip to hell and back, Minkowitz reexamines staples of gay life she once revered — like Sex Panic!, a group that wants to applaud all that is ‘evil’ and ‘transgressive’ in sex. She wonders why she ever embraced the idealist assumption that gays are inherently freer, sexier, and ‘better’ than straights. And the more she visits the Christian right, the more she discovers that neither she nor they have been getting what they’re looking for.
Whether ‘getting slain in the spirit’ with adherents of the Toronto Blessing, which Minkowitz calls the ‘punk-rock version of evangelism,’ or being given a female makeover by Total Woman Ministries, or engaging in mutual confessions with executives from Focus on the Family, Minkowitz comes to understand that both she and they have been using sex and God, not being saved by them. In the end, Minkowitz discovers a very different kind of ecstasy. It is not the ecstasy of overcoming the Other; it is not the frenzied search for safety. It is an embrace of all the dangers and beauties that our deepest selves can offer. Here is a tour of the extremes of body and soul in America that may exhilarate and shock while it enlightens, but will remain indelibly stamped in the memory long after the last page is turned.
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ISBN | 9780965064576 |
Genre | Religion & Spirituality; Non-Fiction; Award Winner |
Publication Date | 01-Jan-98 |
Publisher | Free Press |
Format | Paperback |
No. of Pages | 175 |
Notes | Lambda Literary Award Winner |
Language | English |
Rating | Great |
BookID | 3922 |