Freda And Jem’s Best of the Week by Lois Fine

Jem is a self-described butch dyke from Montreal who always imagined spending her life in bars and having flings. When she meets Freda, her preconceived notions of self are suddenly moot as she finds herself in a long-term relationship with kids. But as their marriage shifts from lust to gripes, they must find new way of loving.