Nikki by Stuart Friedman

independently wealthy, Nikki Duquesne has moved to San Francisco to try to settle down.

(There is pick-up scene in the lesbian bar)

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'ONE NIGHT WITH NIKKI WAS LIKE A LIFETIME'

'A compelling novel of a neurotic young woman's search for a man virile enough to master her - body and soul. But it was Jim Thelton, her best friend's husband, who thrilled Nikki more than any man ever had - then at the peak of their affair drove her into the arms of his own wife!'