{"id":5873,"date":"2017-09-04T19:16:19","date_gmt":"2017-09-04T19:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lesbianfunworld.com\/books\/?p=5873"},"modified":"2017-09-04T19:16:19","modified_gmt":"2017-09-04T19:16:19","slug":"making-love-visible-by-jean-swallow-geoff-manasse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lesbianfunworld.com\/books\/making-love-visible-by-jean-swallow-geoff-manasse\/","title":{"rendered":"Making Love Visible by Jean Swallow; Geoff Manasse"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Making Love Visible<\/em><\/h2>\n

In Celebration of Gay and Lesbian Families<\/em><\/h3>\n

Jean Swallow; Geoff Manasse<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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A 1995 Lambda Literary Award recipient in the Photography\/Visual Arts category<\/p>\n

Photographer Geoff Manasse and journalist\/novelist Jean Swallow, award-winners in their fields, travel the country to bring home a diversity of pictures and stories. <\/p>\n

From the book’s introduction by Jean Swallow:<\/p>\n

So perhaps you can imagine how confusing this family business has been for me. I’m not supposed to have a family. But I do, and I have, and I expect I always will. And as I look around, I see this is also true for most of my gay and lesbian friends. And if I’ve been confused, if I’ve seen no words and no images of the reality of my life, I can only imagine how confused and how easily misled the rest of America must be about gay and lesbian families, how easily any of us can be made to believe that gay men and lesbians are, well, not like everybody else.<\/p>\n

So what makes a family? To begin with, love and the dream of love lasting. And then the second, crucial, ingredient: the acceptance of obligation. “Until death do us part.” “For better or worse.” We make these promises to each other, in a church, in a car in a quiet parking lot, or in the space between us as we hold each other in tears at a funeral. “I promise I will never leave you.” “We will grow old together.”<\/p>\n

Love and commitment make a family. No more. And no less. No church ceremony or government document will ever stop love or its inevitable expression of honoring that love by our choice to shelter and claim one another as our own. And no one, no matter who they are in this life, no matter how much power they have accumulated or how loudly they shout will ever be able to take away the name of who we are together.<\/p><\/div>\n

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